Hair, A Husband Trap

Anisah writes...

I am a 26-year-old mother of two. When I got pregnant with my second child, I decided to go natural. For one whole year, I was natural; however, I didn't know how to take care of my hair. I would wash my hair every other day and moisturize with pink lotion. My hair would be dry every day. Whenever my hubby would call to say he was on his way home, I would wet my hair so it would like nice, (it was about shoulder length). Well one day I was overly tired from taking care of the kids, cooking, cleaning and doing laundry. The phone rang and I just looked at it. I knew it was my hubby, but I just didn't care. When he arrived, he played with the kids and then came downstairs to sit on the couch with me. We talked as usual. I told him how tired I was and he started to put his fingers in my hair and play in it then he stopped and asked me, "DID YOU COMB YOUR HAIR TODAY?" I was mad! I exclaimed, “Get your hands out of my hair”. He didn't and I repeated, “Move your hand”. He said, "I can't, it's stuck”. I was SO beyond embarrassed because I tried to take it out and IT WAS STUCK. It was caught in between some nappy naps (it had gotten tangled from not combing it or tying in down with a scarf). So, when he moved, I could feel my roots being pulled. I was so mad that I just yanked his hand out. After that, I cut my hair (the BIG CHOP) and I moisturized every other day. Now when he runs his fingers through he says it's so soft and occasionally tries to pretend his hand is stuck, but I know it's not because I use Karen's Body Beautiful Hair Milk.